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Baraka_Guru · 02-13-2010, 07:22 AM

Woah, wait.... you've been seeing her a month and a half, and she pulls this?

Dude, walk away.

I was in a relationship like this once. I didn't walk away. I paid for it dearly, and in many ways I still am.

She's being manipulative and doesn't care about your priorities or your responsibilities to others. It's about her. Not "us." It's about her.

Walk away.

I know I'm biased because of my experience, so take my advice with a grain of salt.

People like that don't tend to change for the better. Christ, you haven't been seeing her for two months yet. How do you think she'll be in two years? She's already trying to wear you down.

There are far more pleasant and influential ways to get a guy's attention; I'd say she's either psychotic or immature (likely both).

So, yeah, walk away.

02-13-2010, 07:22 AM	#6 (permalink)
Baraka_Guru warrior bodhisattva Super Moderator Location: East-central Canada	Woah, wait.... you've been seeing her a month and a half, and she pulls this? Dude, walk away. I was in a relationship like this once. I didn't walk away. I paid for it dearly, and in many ways I still am. She's being manipulative and doesn't care about your priorities or your responsibilities to others. It's about her. Not "us." It's about her. Walk away. I know I'm biased because of my experience, so take my advice with a grain of salt. People like that don't tend to change for the better. Christ, you haven't been seeing her for two months yet. How do you think she'll be in two years? She's already trying to wear you down. There are far more pleasant and influential ways to get a guy's attention; I'd say she's either psychotic or immature (likely both). So, yeah, walk away. __________________ Knowing that death is certain and that the time of death is uncertain, what's the most important thing? —Bhikkhuni Pema Chödrön Humankind cannot bear very much reality. —From "Burnt Norton," Four Quartets (1936), T. S. Eliot Last edited by Baraka_Guru; 02-13-2010 at 07:25 AM..