err sounds to me like she was playing nice to start with but now decided it's time to set things straight and show you who's boss. Seems like a total overreaction to the situation and unreasonable as well. I'd think it over, whether that was a one off or not. I think it sounds like she's only now showing her true self. I'd probably tell her it's over and move on.
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Whether we write or speak or do but look
We are ever unapparent. What we are
Cannot be transfused into word or book.
Our soul from us is infinitely far.
However much we give our thoughts the will
To be our soul and gesture it abroad,
Our hearts are incommunicable still.
In what we show ourselves we are ignored.
The abyss from soul to soul cannot be bridged
By any skill of thought or trick of seeming.
Unto our very selves we are abridged
When we would utter to our thought our being.
We are our dreams of ourselves, souls by gleams,
And each to each other dreams of others' dreams.
Fernando Pessoa, 1918
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