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Originally Posted by Punk.of.Ages
....These women objectify themselves for a living. If I want an object, I'll get a fleshlight...I know this seems callous, and maybe even a bit strange out of me, but I just can't see it any other way.
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I was a stripper for a couple of years. I objectified myself, and made an incredible amount of money! I did it mostly for the money, but also ...just because I could.
And I liked the attention. I liked looking out and seeing the guys with their hands in their pants and knowing it was me that was on their minds. And because I didn't really know what else I wanted to do. I was the stripper that hardly drank, didn't do drugs, and went to church on Sunday. I was an object, an expensive object, but not a whore. Enjoy the fleshlight.
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Originally Posted by guccilvr
...They were nice girls. They weren't just a piece of ass when they left the club. They were real people with real lives and issues just like the rest of us. The reasons for dancing were varied, but of the 3 I dated, they've all left the profession and are now white collar professionals with college degrees. It doesn't always work out that way, but just because they're stripping doesn't make them whores.....
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You are describing me perfectly, guccilvr. In my time as a dancer I went out with about a dozen of my "fans." (I ended up having sex with maybe two or three.) Sometimes on a real date, sometimes just out for breakfast after the club closed. I told one guy who asked me out on Saturday night that I'd be at First Christian Church for the 11:00 service the next morning, and he actually showed up!
Some guys (I think) are actually kind of intimidated by strippers, and really don't know what to expect. Some are in the titti bar looking for sex, (but it's not a very good pickup place, right guys?) but most are just lonely and/or bored. You know what I hated most about it??? The smoke.
Lindy