Daniel_

Interesting point. Does "TFP Support" anything?

This is a talking shop, not a democracy - there's no collective responsibility; you can say things I disagree with, and it is not the voice of TFP, it's the voice of P9.

I think that the OP needs to fix himself before he tries to fix his wife; and I believe that his plan is sinister - if not "rape" then certainly verging on "dishonesty in marriage".

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