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I've had this issue before. There have been a few different reasons for it:
1. Long-lasting low-grade yeast infection. I didn't have any real symptoms, just really sensitive/thin skin that would tear during sex - and those tears REALLY hurt. Lube didn't make any difference, but going to the doctor and getting some medication did.
2. He was too big, I was too small, and he didn't spend enough time getting me turned on anymore. Lube can help with this one, but only for so long.
3. Sex lasted far too long. I start to get bored after 10-15 minutes unless the sex is REALLY good, and my personal lubrication starts to dry up as well. This can produce a ton of soreness, and I dated one guy who would take FOREVER to finish - we ended up having to resort to finishing him manually or orally after I'd gotten mine, because otherwise we wouldn't be able to have sex for a few days and the cycle would repeat.
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"Without passion man is a mere latent force and possibility, like the flint which awaits the shock of the iron before it can give forth its spark."
— Henri-Frédéric Amiel
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