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Plan9 · 02-07-2010, 01:17 AM

Well, really, that was a shitty choice for a plane crash picture.

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I don't think the OPs goal is to rape his wife (although the post does give that extra creepy vibe), I think it might be to get her to initiate or enthusiastically participate in activities outside their normal routine of what might very well be lights-off missionary.

I can't say that I haven't had a few partners that I wished would have been spontaneously more adventurous in bed. Perhaps that is why I hit the silk after a period of failed attempts to sexually enlighten them to activities other than Plain Jane Amish reproductive moves.

As stated above, the "I don't feel attractive" thing is a big part of achieving crazy sex. If the OP's lady is overweight, unhappy, and uncomfortable with her body, she's not going to enjoy sex herself, let alone attempt to please her partner with whips and chains and knees-by-the-ears.

If the OP hasn't mentioned his lack of satisfaction with the sex, he's wrong. If he has and nothing has changed... well, we know how that goes.

02-07-2010, 01:17 AM	#11 (permalink)
Plan9 I Confess a Shiver	Well, really, that was a shitty choice for a plane crash picture. ... I don't think the OPs goal is to rape his wife (although the post does give that extra creepy vibe), I think it might be to get her to initiate or enthusiastically participate in activities outside their normal routine of what might very well be lights-off missionary. I can't say that I haven't had a few partners that I wished would have been spontaneously more adventurous in bed. Perhaps that is why I hit the silk after a period of failed attempts to sexually enlighten them to activities other than Plain Jane Amish reproductive moves. As stated above, the "I don't feel attractive" thing is a big part of achieving crazy sex. If the OP's lady is overweight, unhappy, and uncomfortable with her body, she's not going to enjoy sex herself, let alone attempt to please her partner with whips and chains and knees-by-the-ears. If the OP hasn't mentioned his lack of satisfaction with the sex, he's wrong. If he has and nothing has changed... well, we know how that goes. __________________ *Whatever you can carry.* "You should not drink... and bake." Last edited by Plan9; 02-07-2010 at 01:24 AM..