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Originally Posted by Sue
Thanks. That's what I asked previously, but didn't get a serious reply until GG replied to you.
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"Churches" typically implies Christian faith. Sorry for the confusion.
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Originally Posted by Merlocke
They sure do have nice churches. Question though - do Mormon's practice tithing? I know certain religions do (and typically those are the ones that end up with nicer places of worship).
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Yes, Tithing 10% of your income is expected. In order to be fully a part of the faith, it is obligatory. One cannot obtain a Temple recommend if they do not participate in tithing.
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Originally Posted by bazkitcase5
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My main question is, given the circumstances, is there anything I need to be weary of or cautious about that could be a deal-breaker? I feel like this could be an important issue and I want to know more about what I am dealing with, instead of guessing. I have no intention of trying to convert her, but also have no intentions of changing myself (and don't want to discuss my reasons why)
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Fair question.
Is her family also Mormon? Are they more devout than her?
As long as you're together, her parents will most likely hold out hope that you'll convert to their faith. They may object to you marrying their daughter without converting to the faith. You will find yourself left out of some family events. Wedding ceremonies come to mind, but you'll be invited to receptions.
Each woman is unique, but I've compiled a list of common issues LDS women face that you may want to look out for.
- assume men are in charge - of the world and of the family.
- feel worthless without children.
- depression is very common - prozac a must.
- few goals in life beyond having a family.
- understand little of finances (women typically don't live up to the Mormon stereotype of being good with money).
- drive for perfection that encourages occasional mental breakdowns.
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won't have sex before marriage.
- when they finally have sex, it's often a demoralizing and confusing experience for them, since they know little-to-nothing of their own anatomy and much less of a man's.