I was going to save this response till later tonight when I assume you would have replied something but I won't bother. I already assume you had a lot of motivation it being a Monday and lost it instantly when everyone shot you down. You had 5 days. And I sorta anticipated this because I am copy pasting most parts of this response. I wrote it on Tuesdat when you came up with an excuse.
Remember this?
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Originally Posted by Xerxys
Do you have $20? Get a haircut. A good one. Afterwards take a picture of yourself with a camera phone and use that photo in any of the dating sites your registered at.
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The most integral part of my post was the haircut. The photograph part of it was just to make yourself feel better but the most important part was for YOU to feel good about yourself when you look in the mirror for the next two weeks. I can accept a reason along the lines of, "I don't have $20.00 to kill" (although a haircut is $12 here) but anything short of that is an excuse.
That's what you are Mirth, an excuse. You are a sorry excuse in the way of your own happiness and you are your own reason for anxt.
This thread was a very good idea, IMHO. You failed the very task of this thread and that was to develop independent thought through social exercise. A method of understanding that there IS a social norm, and comprehending it is irrelevant. Whether or not you get it doesn't matter, whats important is you act accordingly.
Your attitude. Your attitude is very bad. Know the jesus parable about log in the eye? You can't call someone a slut because of what you learned from their profile! Is your profile an excellent summation of what you are?
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Originally Posted by Shauk
Your classification of women seems to objectify them, and if I had to guess, you do this because you're socially defunct to the point that women aren't people, they're just challenges. Challenges that make you self conscious, wonder if you're not good enough, and ultimately it's not about them, it's about you, and you think the only thing that would make you feel better right now is if some chick met you and spread her legs for you in acceptance since you can't find acceptance in who you are on your own.
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This pretty much puts it into perspective.
When
archetypal fool asked you to talk to people you seemed to some up with an excuse to "exempt" you from talking to people in your home town. Does your head work like this all the time?
The point of this post is, had anyone participated you would have failed still. YOU are in YOUR way. Get out of your head. Then out of your bedroom. Go to work. Go to school. Talk about work and school. Once you realize you are sick of these things because you do them every day other interests will arise. If you don't join a gym you'll still be skinny. If you don't go out you'll still be a WoW gamer who has nothing to talk about besides WoW. YOU are in YOUR way.
And your emo. Mirth, the reason you don't have a girlfriend and IRL friends is because your emo. No one likes emo. We don't make fun of them when we ask them to cut themselves, we mean it. No one wants to hang around emo ... at all.
I wonder if I got that last one across ...