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Damnit, I was comfortable being the disfunctional relationship guy on the board but this guy... sorry man, you can have my crown, my cake, my kingdom.
Your classification of women seems to objectify them, and if I had to guess, you do this because you're socially defunct to the point that women aren't people, they're just challenges. Challenges that make you self conscious, wonder if you're not good enough, and ultimately it's not about them, it's about you, and you think the only thing that would make you feel better right now is if some chick met you and spread her legs for you in acceptance since you can't find acceptance in who you are on your own.
There's a word for that. Co-dependence.
You're an incomplete person seeking completion in others. I'll tell you what I know. Girls aren't charities. They're looking for the whole package, the men who make enable them to feel love, respect, and passion.
You know what? take a vow of self improvement for a while, don't even think about sex or anything of that nature for a while. Get around girls and alter your attitude whoever you have to, to make yourself not want to hook up with them. Look down at them, brush them aside, treat them like co-workers or business associates, not love interests. Get it under control, and once you feel like you understand what it means to not feel the NEED to hook up with every hottie that passes your way, you might understand what it means to be confident and secure.
and you know what? every little bullshit thing you knock about yourself, you can change. If you feel out of shape, fix it, if you feel like your skin is bad, get a dermatologist, if you feel you can't afford the services that increase your self confidence, get a better job, and if you don't feel you have what it takes to get a good job, get a better education, find a passion that doesn't involve women.
Just my 2 cents, again.
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