Wes Mantooth

I'm not sure if that would create a vengeful attitude towards men per say, everybody handles that stuff differently. I'd be much more concerned about the whole secretive, manipulating, dominating thing you mentioned. If you feel that comes from the incident you mentioned you could suggest therapy so she can properly deal with it and move on.

I guess weigh the pros and cons, if its something you can deal with stick it out. Personally though I'd run for the hills and never look back, there would have to be A LOT of pros to deal with baggage like that.

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