Plan9

Mirth,

Wild guess, but guys that look for girls with self-shots of their lotion-shiny butterhogs aren't in the mood for a chat about campaign finance reform or the last time they did a half marathon. Some girls pose like meat, and the meat eaters go for it. No mystery there. I can't say I've ever gone out with a girl I met on a dating site that played the sex card in their dating site profile. That's cheap... and I don't like cheap women. They attract STDs and babies and drunken exboyfriends. You don't need that. You're looking for someone who's a dating site mercenary: she's there to find a decent guy, no bullshit.

It's okay to say that dating site users have horrible. At least half of the guys on there are total scumbags... which is why it often takes the effort I put into it to assure decent girls that I'm not just trying to play hide the sausage with them after a trip to Taco Bell.

Yeah, and dating is way expensive if you do the typical dickdance routine of dinner+movie+awkward goodnight. I'd avoid that traditional goatfuck in favor of something a little more European... meeting over coffee (cheap, short operational time frame). Even braineating zombies like something on the menu from Dunkin Donuts. Make sure to bring something to talk about... that's really the most important item.

And having LoganSnake as a friend may contribute to your lack of self-esteem. He hurts my feelings all the time.