Plan9

Dumped hard, eh? Yeah, I've been there a few times... although I would word it differently to avoid the wrath of LordEden or Jazz. They're irregular.

Such incidents can cause long lasting damage to people. They get hurt and stay hurt. They seem to prefer it; as if pain is both a crutch and a bandage. Father wasn't there, their pony died, mom drank too much, had really unsatisfying sex with a chunky D&D player, etc. It's a reason to be damaged.

Instead of taking the hard things they've been through in their life and using them to make themselves wiser and more kind, they wear them like bitter "You guys..." scars. So instead of slamming your nuts in a car door or what my pigment-endowed brother, ManicSkafe said, I'd avoid this snarling hosebeast lest you feel like you put more than just your dick in the rusty jaws of a female bear trap. Besides, mentally stable women are cheaper dates.

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And, for the moment, let's assume that you live in Assam, India. There are a million girls to choose from that don't have these issues.