Hmmm, this thread totally back-fired on me...
I don't know, I thought it just would have made it easier on me if I was doing it as like, a challenge. I felt I couldn't do it for myself, that my brain needs to be tricked into thinking I'm doing it for someone else like if it were a dare. I
do think there is something wrong with my brain, and unfortunately I can't prove it. Remember that the brain controls everything, what we remember, what we hear, how we speak, etc. The part that tells me to socialize without fear could be damaged.
I just thought it would be like riding a bike. I rode my bike as a child with my dad holding it up while I pedaled, running alongside me, and we did this for weeks or whatever, and then one day he just let go. I thought maybe we could do something like that where for a couple weeks you guys could give me assignments and then a couple weeks later let go and have me do it on my own. But I respect your decisions not to help if you feel that I must do it on my own...
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Originally Posted by amonkie
What about the college girls intimidates you? Answering this question may give you your own set of challenges and steps to take that will help to make taking to them possible.
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I'm not sure really, the girls at the university are always in groups and they seem so smart and mature. And obviously they have high ambitions if they are going to get their bachelor's degrees. The girls at the other University I used to go to in Orlando didn't make me feel that way, but these girls for some unknown reason do. Maybe because there are very few, while the other college was swarming with them.
As for the hobbies part... Other than playing drums or bass, or playing video games, which both really don't need to involve a group of people, I don't know what to say. I like flying my dad's radio-controlled model airplane things, but all of the "group" places I've been to are with guys over the age of 50 it seems, haha. I do live in a town where the elderly overpopulate everyone else. I also look on Craigslist in the Activities of Events section, and again, it's all older people stuff. I will have to think hard about where I can find events that involve younger people, other than possibly the church.
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Originally Posted by Xerxys
Do you have $20? Get a haircut. A good one. Afterwards take a picture of yourself with a camera phone and use that photo in any of the dating sites your registered at.
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I just got a haircut in December. I used to have longer hair (which wasn't cut since the summer), but I did get one recently and I did put up a couple new pictures recently on the dating sites. A few of my online buddies get messaged by women who initiate it, but not myself. Sucks... And when I do initiate it, they usually just don't reply.
Anyways, you may close/delete this thread, I don't think there will be any input here that I haven't gotten from my previous threads already. Thanks anyways fellas, I still <3 you all.