I think by and large, TFP is going to decline this request. I certainly am. This request just feeds the beast--it has your "self" coming from outside you, which IS the problem.
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Originally Posted by Mirth
If I do not complete the goal each week, I will know for myself that I cannot change...
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If you don't complete a goal, it does NOT mean you can't change. You know what it means? It means you didn't complete a goal.
Your main problem is that stuff happens, you decide what it must mean, and then you roll on as if it actually, objectively means that. Life just isn't fraught with meaning like that. Life is just life. The meaning (in your case, largely in the form of conclusions you draw about yourself) is all coming from you.