Something that will help is if you realize there is no such thing as "Normal". Especially when it relates to Social interaction. You're putting building blocks in your own path by building things up to be bigger than they really are.
What about the college girls intimidates you? Answering this question may give you your own set of challenges and steps to take that will help to make taking to them possible.
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Calling from deep in the heart, from where the eyes can't see and the ears can't hear, from where the mountain trails end and only love can go... ~~~ Three Rivers Hare Krishna
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