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I understand your frustration. But here's the thing: asking for others to set up goals so you can improve your self-confidence is a bit contradictory, don't you think?
In fact, this is a trend in most of your posts. You acknowledge that you lack confidence, friendships, intimacy, etc. and then you expect that someone will fix that for you. In your most recent post, it was all about how the girl didn't solve all your emotional problems. And so you are asking complete strangers to send you out to do stuff you should be willing to do on your own.
It is very hard to make friends and know people when you are so insecure. It is even harder when not only there are insecurity issues, but you are willing to dump your problems on someone else to fix.
Have you ever considered counseling? If that is out of the question, then at least ask yourself what you want, and go for it. Asking others for goals is just an excuse to make a half hearted effort, or something to fall on if it fails.
You've had two girlfriends by now, and you've dumped and been dumped. You should know by now that there are people that like you, and if not, if things end badly, it wont kill you.
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