I was formerly a co-leader of a roleplaying guild in WoW, and the leader had recently begun acting with total insecurity and clinginess. Her emotional baggage and relationship issues became the focus of all our conversations, and whenever I logged on, I was bombarded with whining requests to come run through a dungeon with her, or sit at a tavern and roleplay. I couldn't stand dungeon runs at that point, and the roleplaying became a one-sided, pitiful attempt on her part at seduction. I clearly communicated that I was uninterested in her advances, but she refused to back down.
I ended up quitting the guild with the second co-leader, causing the girl to violently lash out at me with guilt tripping attempts. She apparently felt so sick that she couldn't play WoW. I ignored her and happily moved on.
My point? Don't put up with insecure, emotionally discombobulated leeches seeking to boost their self worth by ejecting their repugnant bile on those around them. Leave drama behind and find a guild that is more conducive to your goals in the game. For me, that is casual interaction with a tightly knit group of experienced roleplayers who demand a certain maturity level from guild members.
In summary, if you come across a drama whore, pop a cap in her ass or get out of town.
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