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Oh for fucks sake. I mean, I can't not reply to this any longer.
Damn, J. You're talking about the same shit you've been talking about for years, except now that you've had two girlfriend experiences, it doesn't seem like you've learned anything at all.
There is no new language. There is no culture shock. The woman either gets you or she doesn't. If she doesn't - move the fuck on. A woman is not a different species nor some kind of exotic new element (well, maybe she is to you). Just like with any other new person, you just explore each others personalities and go from there. If there is no click, then you pack your bags and move on.
How about you make a decision yourself next time? Pretty much any decision you've had to make regarding relationships whether with another male or female, you had to seek advice. Get a few bruises. It won't kill you and you will learn something. Maybe.
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Maturity is knowing you were an idiot in the past. Wisdom is knowing that you'll be an idiot in the future. Common sense is knowing that you should try not to be an idiot now. - J. Jacques
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