Manic, you've got to teach me that trick of getting people to think that you're being overly harsh when you're not. I thought I was much harsher than you were (although I manage to stay away from suggesting mass murder this time), but you're the one who gets singled out. And that would go so far in elevating my reputation as an unfeeling lout.
And highthief - now there's at least 3 of us who think that.
Mirth - none of us has anything against you, but there are times when you seem to need to be reminded that you're an adult and are responsible for your own actions. You also have a pretty skewed view of women and relationships based on your point-by-point disection of the two you've been a part of. Do you do that with your friends?
[sigh] Here's my last piece of advice: you seem to enjoy going to this church and enjoy what it has to offer. That's good. You've identified something that you like to do. If you can't go to the same church because you've dumped this girl (which seems silly but whatever), then find one that's similar - explain the situation to the minister and get his recommendations if you need to. Go do young adult bible study or join their softball team (who cares if you're any good - it's a church softball team, not the *insert team name here*). Get to know people. Make friends.
Then again, I think Manic_Skafe and I are going to syncronise watches for your next thread with some variation of this problem. Skafe, what do you think? 4 months?
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