End it with her. Sit her down and explain that YOU made a mistake going onto a relationship so fast after the fiasco with your ex.
After this start meeting people. Mirth, how many times have you contributed to this website besides being all emo about how little self esteem you have and how average you are and woe is me this, woe is me that! You are fuckin' selfish dude! How dare you go into a relationship with some one you don't find attractive? I'm socially retarded and even *I* know that's wrong!
I have half a very cynic mind to think that you intentionally used her as an emotional punching bag. If you went so far as two dates with this girl and found nothing of value why did you not drop it altogether? Unless you wanted to be the dumper instead of the dumpee can you think of any other reason?
You complain of the inability to connect with many people. How do you think you will find a soul mate with no effort to remedy your excess introverted behavior? Getting a girlfriend requires you to be able to start conversations. Stick around if not here then any other forums and LEARN HOW TO TALK TO PEOPLE. Contribute more and make it a habit like smoking. Hopefully it will manifest into a compulsion to meet more people.
Worst case scenario you become a worse recluse and develop an internet addiction.
Last edited by Xerxys; 01-20-2010 at 07:19 PM..
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