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Originally Posted by Mirth
Although, some of the replies have made me feel like I'm selfish... I really didn't intend to lead her on or anything and waste her time, I kept seeing her because I wanted to learn more about her and see if things felt differently the more I got to know her personality. That last thing I wanted to do is to intentionally hurt her and use her...
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That's cause you are being selfish. Relationships require both selflessness and selfishness. If you were selfless, you'd torture yourself and continue the relationship. But you're unsatisfied, so break it off and try again.
Do it sooner than later, my ex "changed" and decided to not tell me for over 1 year. I broke it off, because he was beyond distant, he was evasive. And when I found out it had been that long, I told him I never wanted to speak to him again. He lied. He didn't want to hurt me, but he lied. I felt used and furious for using my money and emotions on him for an extra year. And the moron still wants to be best buddies... hah! So I beg you, please be completely honest and end it quickly. And don't give her the option of being friends after, just make a complete clean break.