Sigh....
Dump her. As much for her sake as yours. Why make her unhappy and lead her on needlessly. If you can't do it in person, read these reasons over the phone - although I'd edit out the stuff about the ex.
Dude, you need some confidence. Go do something really cool - shoot something, bungee jump, throw lawnchairs at passing cars, whatever passes for cool in your neck of the woods. This.....this is just unfair to both of you.
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