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This situation with your SIL should be handled exactly like you and one of your dude-friend's wives.
You don't think railing your best friend's wife would be cool, right?
Of course, as CuriousBear points out wisely, the closeness and trust of those kinds of relationships allow for some fun flirtation. I've smacked my best friend's wife on the ass before. That didn't mean I am going to be a homewrecker. I'm not saying there aren't some outlier behaviors possible, maybe even something out of a lurid novel if that's what you are all after.
Cheating, backstabbing and lying, though, are NOT positive, healthy things to be doing.
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