sounds like she's on the wire and you're the safety net, and you like it like that, because it gives you a place in her life. emotions kinda suck like that. we want to be invested in peoples lives, but they don't show it as much as us, or something else happens to complicate it. I think you might have to get a little less worrisome (spl?) in her life and yours, and just go with the flow.
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