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Originally Posted by ShaniFaye
Ok let me rephrase......If you put pizza in front of me that has onions on it I wont give it a 2nd look, If you put pizza that has anchovies on it, I wont give it a 2nd look, if you put pizza that has Canadian Bacon on it, I might give it a once over....etc.
Do you get a hard on for EVERY female you come across?
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no, but they all have cheese. and I love cheese.
lol
nah it's like I said earlier, I don't go up to girls hoping for a friendship out of it, and I don't know many guys that do. The girls that wind up in the friend category are generally there by circumstances we don't really dictate. Like maybe it was a co-worker you had to work alone with and just by chance you found out that you have a lot in common, yet you're completely unattracted to her because maybe she talks deeper than you do or looks like your brother, father, robert deniro...
Now, these kinds of people might actually be friends with your other female co-worker that you ARE interested in, next thing you know you're just hanging out with both of them, even if you'd prefer to be with the other girl alone. You'll take what you can get.
And I mean lets me honest, I'm sure some guys have just wound up talking to the girl who's a friend of the girl you actually are interested in for that reason alone, just to get a scope of what you're dealing with, a little information recon.
It doesn't make you lecherous, you have a goal in mind, that's all.
I mean hey maybe the friend likes the same movies and wants to spend time doing the activities I do with me, but she's not attracted to me cuz I have a higher voice than her, but sometimes those gender defining moments really just make you want to facepalm, like if I say my balls itch out loud or she just says something like "i really like the color of those shoes" about a movie character.
I will never hope for a "me too" moment there.