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This is a weird one for me. I have dated a few women who had a bunch of male friends. Most of the time, I'm not too threatened by it unless there's one that's constantly around or they really seem almost too close. With all but one of my exes, I've trusted her completely. The one I didn't trust couldn't say no when it came to sex. I'm not sure we were ever actually "together" but we did date off and on for quite a while and she usually only came to me when she didn't have anything else lined up. We were always up front with our sex lives and I'm fairly certain she's slept with most of her guy friends at least once.
However, being a single guy, I do not trust guys...especially if they're single. I can be just friends with a woman but chances are, I want to sleep with her anyway and I will jump at the chance if the opportunity presents itself. There was one specific time I remember where a friend of mine came over after work one Friday so I could fix her laptop. She spent the night. It's not that I try to instigate an encounter, it's just sometimes things happen.
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