Shauk

I wish this were true. Sadly it's just there to take over when the other one is sleeping.

the thing is, sexual attraction doesn't really have to exist for some people, for them it's not even emotional, it's just a matter of willpower.

you put a hot succulent.... slice of pizza in front of someone and the aroma sets in, enticing them to take a bite, and the hunger pain kicks in and makes you think about how good that would taste on your tongue.

Willpower and instinct will wrestle for only a moment, because opportunity only knocks once. If you pass this up, someone else will remove your opportunity.

to stop speaking in metaphor, basically if a girl appears to have many guy friends, it almost compels me to pay more attention to her in a way, esp if she's a serial monogamist who just chains relationships back to back.

If they only seem to talk to you in between relationships, take a fucking hint.

So it's just a matter of changing your flag from "taken" to "single" and I'm sure you will watch the sausage fest ensue if you're not an entirely repulsive woman.

Don't get me wrong, I, as a male, CAN, be friends with a woman, but more likely than not, if I'm putting effort in to talking to a woman, it's out of sexual instinct, not out of social nicety .