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Originally Posted by StephanieH
My first husband LOVED it. ... It did nothing for me. But I like seeing my partner experience pleasure so I liked doing it for him.
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Any pleasure I would get from strap on sex would have to be strictly mental/psychological. How could it be otherwise?
Since the strap-on dildo wouldn't have any of my nerve endings in it, how could I even feel the penetration?? Or anything else physical?
When I put my lubed finger up his butt, then at least I can feel something, and feel the way he moves. If I wanted to feel more control, I'd use my thumb while holding his balls with my other four fingers.
(Thumbs up, so to speak.)
And I would also have the concern (expressed by a couple of others, refuted by Snowy) that he might decide he wondered how the "real thing" felt in his butt.
Lindy