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Anonymous Member · 01-07-2010, 02:48 AM

Basically I seem to wind up "connecting" on some level with my lady friends who happen to be dating my other acquaintances/friends.

I don't know if it's in my head but I just sense some wild chemistry between me and this one girl, for example. Her current bf is a big time slacker pot head type and it seems like a really loveless relationship between the 2 of them since he's been bashing her at every opportunity he gets when she's not around, picking up other girls numbers "just in case" and goes out on drinking binges (which I happily join him in from time to time hah) while she's stuck working at her healthcare job.

she's just always giving me the "fuck me" eyes while he sits back completely oblivious eating his fries and staring at the TV

Maybe it's just my own attraction to her that's interpreting events this way, I can't honestly say i'd be any better for her in the long run, but she's just seeming to drop the hints here and there, like if I tell my friend we should "do this again soon" after meeting him for dinner or something, if he comes up with some lame excuse like "yeah I dunno I don't know what days I have off coming up" she's quick to interject "well you can always call me, I have a car"

...

...

o.O

O.O

*gulp*

He's a good dude but we've never ever been more than party acquaintances, I certainly don't feel any hesitation in sniping his girl out from under him if she's more in to me than she is in to him, and he seems to have no problem grabbing phone numbers "just in case" so it's almost like he's expecting it.

The whole thing is just a drama bomb though haha, i'm fully aware that most people would just be like "run away" but goddamnit, the hormones won't listen.

Anyone else run in to this problem? the forbidden fruit... so sweet and tempting, but definitely morally ambiguous.

The other girl that seems to be giving me this vibe is married though, that one I definitely have far far far back on the backburner, I need to hear divorce from that one before I even let that one through the cracks of my armor.

01-07-2010, 02:48 AM	#1 (permalink)
Anonymous Member Addict	The forbidden fruit of women in relationships. Basically I seem to wind up "connecting" on some level with my lady friends who happen to be dating my other acquaintances/friends. I don't know if it's in my head but I just sense some wild chemistry between me and this one girl, for example. Her current bf is a big time slacker pot head type and it seems like a really loveless relationship between the 2 of them since he's been bashing her at every opportunity he gets when she's not around, picking up other girls numbers "just in case" and goes out on drinking binges (which I happily join him in from time to time hah) while she's stuck working at her healthcare job. she's just always giving me the "fuck me" eyes while he sits back completely oblivious eating his fries and staring at the TV Maybe it's just my own attraction to her that's interpreting events this way, I can't honestly say i'd be any better for her in the long run, but she's just seeming to drop the hints here and there, like if I tell my friend we should "do this again soon" after meeting him for dinner or something, if he comes up with some lame excuse like "yeah I dunno I don't know what days I have off coming up" she's quick to interject "well you can always call me, I have a car" ... ... o.O O.O gulp He's a good dude but we've never ever been more than party acquaintances, I certainly don't feel any hesitation in sniping his girl out from under him if she's more in to me than she is in to him, and he seems to have no problem grabbing phone numbers "just in case" so it's almost like he's expecting it. The whole thing is just a drama bomb though haha, i'm fully aware that most people would just be like "run away" but goddamnit, the hormones won't listen. Anyone else run in to this problem? the forbidden fruit... so sweet and tempting, but definitely morally ambiguous. The other girl that seems to be giving me this vibe is married though, that one I definitely have far far far back on the backburner, I need to hear divorce from that one before I even let that one through the cracks of my armor.