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I think in part I disagree with you, and in part I disagree with your framing of the issue.
I have several female friends. Some of them are hot, some of them not. Some of them I'm sexually attracted to, some not. Obviously I'm more likely to be sexually attracted to the 'hot' ones, but it isn't a direct relationship. One of my hottest female friends I feel almost no attraction for in that way. Another, who an objective observer would call 'average', I'm incredibly attracted to. Even female friends I'm attracted to, I still consider 'good' friends - I don't spend time with them just because I want to boink them - I spend time with them because I *like* them, and enjoy spending time with them. I just don't see how the two are mutually exclusive.
If you have a 'hot female friend', and the only reason you're friends with them is because you want to have sex with them, would you stop being their friend if they were in a terrible accident and were no longer hot? That just seems...sad.
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