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Now that I'm unemployed and taking classes all online, I masturbate usually between two and three times a day. My morning sessions, I usually try to make it last as long as possible. I get the precum flowing and edge until I can't take anymore and explode. At night, before I fall asleep, it's usually much quicker.
When I'm having sex, a lot depends on the girl I'm with. One of my exe's, it didn't matter how often I masturbated. We would have sex for hours at a time and I was able to stay hard the entire time. My most recent gf was different. She moves a little differently and with a condom, it makes it difficult to stay hard for very long unless I can keep her from moving. What's really interesting is the sex rarely lasts as long with any of my more recent partners as it did with that one ex. Unless I've been drinking...couple that with a condom and I can stay fairly hard but have a really hard time finishing.
My belief is that if you take your time while masturbating and make it last, you're more likely going to last longer in bed. But I think there are a lot of other factors to consider as well. Your chemistry with your partner, any foreplay involved, if you two like the same rhythm.
I do have to agree that when I refrain from masturbating for a couple days before giving in, it feels so much better. If I know I'm going to be having a girl over, I try not to masturbate at least one day prior to us having sex. For some reason, it seems to make things a little better overall for the night.
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