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I have what I consider two good male friends, and I consider all the rest mere acquaintances, because I agree and find that my definition of being friends with a man never works, except in unusual circumstances.
Of the two male friends I have, one is an ex-boyfriend, and we keep in touch often, play games online, and help each other out. And the other was never a boyfriend, but was a lover at one point. I am sexually attracted to him, I have been for years. But it wouldn't ever work out, he lives too far away. But he knows because I've told him, that if he and I lived closer together, I'd definitely want him to be a lover or fuck buddy of some sort. Our relationship is kind of skewed that way already. I love him dearly, but I'm also attracted to him. lol.
But yeah, I'd say that in general, its difficult for men and women to be friends free of sexual tension, etc.
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