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james t kirk · 01-05-2010, 08:39 PM

Wow.

Too all the posters who are chiming in about "why did you get married then" - no shit, but it's to late for that, so don't bust his balls already.

My thoughts are that I totally sympathize with the OP. Blow jobs are a wonderful thing, a necessary thing, a required thing. It doesn't have to be every day, or even every other day, but once a week would not be too much to ask for.

I know myself when I've dated women who refuse to give one thing or another in bed - say a blow job to be consistent - well, I end up being FIXATED on getting a blow job. It's all I end up wanting - which only makes it worse because the more I want it, the less she wants to give it. You end up feeling like shit. (In my case I simply stop seeing a woman I'm sexually incompatible with - but that comes with age and experience. This dude is married.)

Now to the problem at hand.

I don't know how old the OP is. That can be an issue. If she's young - say late teens, early 20's she could grow out of it and become a good cock sucker - though to be brutally honest - I doubt it.

If she's 30 or older - forget it. Her sexuality is set in stone. She's simply not into sucking cock (for whatever reason - and really who cares what the reasons are - she doesn't like it and will never like it) or cock in general. She's never going to change.

So if she's younger, you might have a shot at remolding her, but if she's over 30 then she'll never change and you either accept that you will never get your cock sucked and you live with it or you get the hell out of the marriage. (Sorry, it's true. It's the brutal truth. People are like elastic bands - they stretch (change a bit) but ultimately, they go back to their original shape. (You could always go to see prostitutes discreetly to get your cock sucked. The result would be that your wife would be relieved not to have to do it and you would not be frustrated.)

The fact that she will neither suck cock, nor give hand jobs leads me to believe that she finds the male organ unappealing, revolting even. I mean Christ, a hand job is about as inoquous as it gets already. High School even. She'll take it vaginally because that's how nature works. I'm amazed she even orgasms to tell you the truth (maybe she's faking that even - it would not surprise me).

01-05-2010, 08:39 PM	#49 (permalink)
james t kirk Junkie Location: Toronto	Wow. Too all the posters who are chiming in about "why did you get married then" - no shit, but it's to late for that, so don't bust his balls already. My thoughts are that I totally sympathize with the OP. Blow jobs are a wonderful thing, a necessary thing, a required thing. It doesn't have to be every day, or even every other day, but once a week would not be too much to ask for. I know myself when I've dated women who refuse to give one thing or another in bed - say a blow job to be consistent - well, I end up being FIXATED on getting a blow job. It's all I end up wanting - which only makes it worse because the more I want it, the less she wants to give it. You end up feeling like shit. (In my case I simply stop seeing a woman I'm sexually incompatible with - but that comes with age and experience. This dude is married.) Now to the problem at hand. I don't know how old the OP is. That can be an issue. If she's young - say late teens, early 20's she could grow out of it and become a good cock sucker - though to be brutally honest - I doubt it. If she's 30 or older - forget it. Her sexuality is set in stone. She's simply not into sucking cock (for whatever reason - and really who cares what the reasons are - she doesn't like it and will never like it) or cock in general. She's never going to change. So if she's younger, you might have a shot at remolding her, but if she's over 30 then she'll never change and you either accept that you will never get your cock sucked and you live with it or you get the hell out of the marriage. (Sorry, it's true. It's the brutal truth. People are like elastic bands - they stretch (change a bit) but ultimately, they go back to their original shape. (You could always go to see prostitutes discreetly to get your cock sucked. The result would be that your wife would be relieved not to have to do it and you would not be frustrated.) The fact that she will neither suck cock, nor give hand jobs leads me to believe that she finds the male organ unappealing, revolting even. I mean Christ, a hand job is about as inoquous as it gets already. High School even. She'll take it vaginally because that's how nature works. I'm amazed she even orgasms to tell you the truth (maybe she's faking that even - it would not surprise me). Last edited by james t kirk; 01-05-2010 at 08:47 PM..