I have several male friends. They are also friends with my husband.
Sexual attraction?
I can honestly say I'm not interested in them. Whether they're attracted to me or not is irrelevant. If they are, and they act on it, they'll not only lose a friendship but they'll also end up bruised, battered, and unable to reproduce.
Yuck.
As for any sort of double-standard? My husband also has female friends. He has made it abundantly clear that he finds them sexually repulsive.
My husband is the monogomous sort. He finds me attractive and tells me so frequently. I find it impossible to be jealous of any of his female friends. I suppose there are scenarios where I would be jealous, but this relationship doesn't have room for jealousy.
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Last edited by genuinegirly; 01-05-2010 at 07:35 PM..
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