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Originally Posted by LoganSnake
Okay, I really don't understand why so many comments imply that you should avoid direct approach and if you don't, then to act embarrassed. What exactly is so bad about knocking on the door and politely explaining that their noises bother you? Is it some sort of taboo to mention sex to another human being? Even when that human being has loud enough sex to be heard in another apartment?
I'm honestly baffled.
Just talk to them.
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While I am the type who believes we should just say what we think...I also know that not everyone is like that and sometimes....if you rub a little salve on the sore spot...people receive things much better.
If you talk to them like you are uncomfortable about the conversation, they will not get the impression that you are trying to tell them what to do (even though you are) and instead of feeling like you are barging into their bedroom...humility might help them to realize that they have been barging into yours.
I agree...you SHOULD be able to just lay it out there and tell people things but you greatly increase the chances of getting what you want when you coat your bitter pill in a spoon full of honey IMHO.