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There's no way round it, you're going to have to have a serious chat about it. The good thing is that it's early days in your marriage, so anything you verbally tackle now should hopefully improve your relationship immeasurably and help to build a better marriage in the future.
I have a girl friend who will not give BJs and hates receiving, which to me is just crazy, but she doesn't like it, and that's that. Nothing can persuade her otherwise and it's not due to bad experiences in the past, it's just the way it is, nothing any guy could say or do would make her change her mind. If that's how your wife feels then you have to decide whether you can handle living like that - from personal experience I think that an imbalance in sexual desires can make it very difficult not to cheat. A healthy relationship means compromise, so if she is willing to give it a try, then you need to explore what will make you both happy, and take it from there.
It's difficult to initiate a conversation like this, but don't make accusations, try to understand her point of view and ask her if there is anything you can do to turn the situation around, and hopefully things will work out fine.
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