Originally Posted by Shell

...my late husband (died young 2 yrs after the birth of his son) did not really want children but the second his baby son came out, i looked at him and saw a completely different person. He was totally enamored, totally captivated, eyes were filled with love and a complete softening of his whole being was evident. I mean, he was always a good, kind loving husband but this event just got him hook, line, and sinker. It may surprise you too.

...bringing life into the world is so awesome, it will take your breath away...and then nothing else matters...the labor-pains the mother underwent is forgotten, the financial worries are overcome by a surge of lovefed-adrenalin that puts you in survival mode to nurture and protect the most precious thing that has ever been placed in your care. Your selfish desires for time and space vanish as you desire to share what's the most important thing in life...love and family. I remember my husband wanted to put a "Precious Cargo" sign on the car to bring the baby home from the hospital. He couldn't stop kissing his tiny soft head. He couldn't take his eyes off him. It was the most endearing thing i've ever watched.

...it was such a loss when my husband died so appreciate and savor this amazing gift you've been blessed with. If your wife is pregnant, you're the luckiest man in the world.