While my marriage didn't end "because" of an affair - there were some suspicions that he was having one before we got divorced. I think that, while he would never admit to it (the evidence was pretty damning), my trust in him became almost non-existent and over time, things just got to be more difficult/miserable for either one of us to be happy together anymore. Had he owned up or had a logical explanation for everything I learned, things might have been different. But since I felt he was no longer being honest with me, I found myself questioning everything else he said and did. I do, however, think every situation is different, so who knows.
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