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How close was your friendship before you became neighbors? Did he ever come over to hang out and watch a movie before? Did you ever hangout at his place and watch a movie with these people?
Why did you move to this building? How long has he lived there? Have you considered that you may have "invaded" his turf? You said he was with a bunch of your neighbors, but before you moved in they were his neighbors, and maybe this is his crowd and this is something he does regularly with them. You can't really insinuate yourself into a group dynamic just because you're now a neighbor.
It sounds like your trying too hard. Slow down, let them get used to you being there as a neighbor.
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