ASU2003

In an ideal relationship, genuinegirly is right. However when there is a conflict they probably should talk to each other and try to work out an unsexy compromise.

Now apologizing for wanting oral sex, when he is going down on her regularly (and I am assuming that she enjoys it) doesn't sound right. I would want to go down on a girl to give her pleasure, even though it doesn't give me an orgasm or any benefit. Now, if she wanted me to lick her ass, and enjoyed it, a similar situation would develop. I just couldn't do it, even if she asked, begged, or tried to force it.

You need to find out why she is against doing them.