No, what some of us are confused about is why you didn't work to fix it in the 3 years prior to marriage. I mean, the way she sees it - you were fine with it the entire time you were with her, so why would she change now? At least that's what I get from your posts. You may not have been fine with it, but the issue really surfaced after marriage from what I'm reading.
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