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Some women love immediate and direct clit contact, but some find it downright painful. Better to work your way in slowly until you know for sure.
Some women like pressure, some like light, flicking motions. Some like their clit bit and sucked, some like just licking. Most like quick tongue movements and circling the clit quickly. Just like with a man, ask her to moan or give some verbal feedback when something feels particularly good.
I will say that female arousal isn't like a man's. Do not work the clit and then ignore it for any length of time (unless you know her very well and are playing with her arousal.) It's frustrating when your arousal falls because he's doing something less stimulating and he has to almost start over. Once you're fully engaged on the clit, stay with it, near it, not leaving it for more than a few seconds at a time until she cums. Yeah, I don't care if your jaw feels like it's going to fall off. If you need to take a jaw break, make sure to keep your fingers, thumb on the action in the meantime to "hold your place". And *never* tell a woman that you think she took too long to cum. It's the best way to get in her head...and make sure she takes even longer next time.
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