Originally Posted by kramus

...Ask yr sweetie what makes him hotter, or really tingles his thighs, or intensifies and lengthens his orgasm. And go into specific details in the question, such as cum play, innocent eyes vs man-eater eyes, constant stroking vs smooth transitions, hand vs tongue, how to use lip action . . .

Tell him you want to practice in front of a mirror while he directs. Tie your hair up in a pony tail if possible and have him use it as a handle to direct you as you practice.