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Originally Posted by Plan9
Well, if my last one was any indicator: EEERRRRGGH... KABLOOEY!
... my $4000 Swedish sleep surface."
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My husband is Swedish; now I have a new nickname for him
(Swedish Meatball, Swedish Chef, and MYKEA were all getting old)
This seems like such a tricky question. My husband and I have an incredibly fun and uniquely honest relationship. We weathered a lot before marriage, and have always been pretty circumspect about the fact that we both look at other people; we weigh the relative attractiveness of the opposite sex a hundred times a day, and occasionally meet that rare engaging individual that makes us curious. Being able to talk about those moments without fear of retaliation or judgment is one of the (many) things that keeps us happy enough that neither considers straying. As such, if he did cheat, I don't think our marriage would survive; nor, maybe, should it. We both put a lot of effort into keeping each other happy and satisfied; if one of us felt compelled to cheat after all, it would seem to me a sign that fundamentally we weren't built to last.