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Originally Posted by Plan9
"You wanna bang somebody else? OK. But you have to tell me first, use safer sex practices, and you're not doing it on my $4000 Swedish sleep surface."
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This. I think honesty is more important than fidelity. I'm a pretty forgiving person, but lying to me is something I won't put up with.
Years ago, my family was sitting around after dinner talking about some neighbor lady who flirted with my grandpa all the time. My stepdad made a comment that he was surprised my grandma (his mom) seemed perfectly okay with it, and didn't put up a fuss when the neighbor lady asked for help with house maintenance stuff. Her answer has stuck with me since then: "Well, I figured if he was the type of man to have an affair with her, I didn't want him anyway."
...I suppose that's enough introspection from the non-married girl. Carry on.
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