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Old 12-12-2009, 07:37 AM   #11 (permalink)
genuinegirly
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Jazz, you're silly.

Nice: This must be a distressing situation for you. While I wouldn't jump to conclusions, I would be concerned. If your wife says she doesn't know why there's a condom missing. If she did use it on another man - that means she's lying to you and cheating.

Your wife may be cheating on you. But she may not. The next question you need to ask yourself, is how this affects you. How will you allow it to affect your relationship? Are you comfortable with the thought of her being with another man? It doesn't sound like you are. Why is this? Why would she want to cheat on you and lie about it? How is your relationship? It might be a terrible stress on your relationship for her to be alone when you work nights. Maybe this is an indication of a deep-seeded issue with your marriage, one that you could potentially resolve.

With a worry like this, be sure to have safe sex. If she is sleeping around, you don't want to be slapped with the consequences.
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