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UnclearContent · 12-11-2009, 02:16 AM

Your previous partner number is something in your past. We move on.

You lying about your number is something you're doing right now, in the present.

You didn't sleep with x number of guys in order to hurt him. It predated the relationship so is a low level factor.

You lying about your sexual count is a directly negative act against your current relationship. You're lying. And by lying you give weight to any insecurity your guy might have because you felt that you needed to lie. If you're open and honest he should see that the number isn't that important. Start lying and you make your past something dirty, or dishonorable, or at least worth keeping in the back of his mind whenever he's with you.

12-11-2009, 02:16 AM	#79 (permalink)
UnclearContent Tilted	Your previous partner number is something in your past. We move on. You lying about your number is something you're doing right now, in the present. You didn't sleep with x number of guys in order to hurt him. It predated the relationship so is a low level factor. You lying about your sexual count is a directly negative act against your current relationship. You're lying. And by lying you give weight to any insecurity your guy might have because you felt that you needed to lie. If you're open and honest he should see that the number isn't that important. Start lying and you make your past something dirty, or dishonorable, or at least worth keeping in the back of his mind whenever he's with you. Last edited by UnclearContent; 12-11-2009 at 08:45 AM..