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Before I started dating my current boyfriend, Brandon, I had a very strong libido. I was excited about sex and I wanted to try out so many things. Right before my boyfriend and I dated, I went through a short phase where I had a one-night-stand almost every other night.

Then, my boyfriend and I began to date and sex was fun and interesting. After a while, I suggested we could do a little bondage (just me being tied up and being spanked) but he didn't think I was serious. I suggested it again a few weeks or so later, and he said he wasn't interested in it. He suggested we try anal.. and I agreed. I was fine with it. I liked it and was just as excited about doing it as I was about having vaginal sex or being fingered. I gave him blowjobs and enjoyed it.

But, then I started getting bored.

He still pleased me by fingering me... and I still pleased him by sucking his dick and doing anal, but I just didn't find any real excitement in it.

We recently broke up because he was flirting with a girl online and I just lost all pleasure in having sex with him.

We've gotten back together, but I still find little pleasure in sex with him. It takes a lot for him to excite me, it seems. I love him, but I'm not sure why I'm feeling this way.

While we were broken up I had a short fling with another man and I was a little more excited about sex, but not as excited as I used to be.

Anybody know why this is happening? Can I ever be horny ever again??