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I've just come to realize that anyone who has a problem with threesomes generally just have a selfish view on relationships.
You are your own person right?
you're your own boss.
You choose who you're willing to enter a relationship with
You choose who you're willing to sleep with.
that's as far as your control over the situation goes.
She may choose to be with you as well.
the problem is that just because she did, doesn't mean anything, doesn't imply ownership, doesn't mean she's yours
even if you're "serious" and even if you love each other and have been together for years.
but then again I don't believe in love, just the chemical equivalence released in your brain that has about a 4 year lifespan. If your bond is strong enough by then, it's probably based on habit or intense friendship, but it's not the euphoria and excitement that "love" encompasses.
Me? i'm just thankful for each encounter, like a one time transaction of mutual approval. if it happens again, great. if not? well, i'll live.
I think it makes ME a better person if I help indulge a person in whatever fantasy they have, we only live once, and it makes me a better partner for relationships to be the open minded one. I know I'd be appreciative if I had a woman go out of her way to accommodate my fantasies.
People tend to focus on the destination and not the journey when they're having their relationships n such ;p Not for me.
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