No, dude. What we're saying is: it's ALL "the real thing".
Sex is sex. You like what you like. There are no "clues". You're not going to find out what you "really" are, because there IS no "what you really are". Sex is a big, wide, messy spectrum, and those of us who don't fit in some preconceived notch on that spectrum need to find our own confidence and comfort from within ourselves, because society isn't going to provide it in the form of some neat little label.
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